My True Bloods and Pieces.
Last few months, I have had lot of struggles and hardships to experience. Sometimes I think, why there are fraternities all around? I got a lot to learn about those things as I enter one.
On my ridiculous experience, I had to face some unexpectedly happening circumstances mentally, emotionally and PHYSICALLY of course. Maybe a social aspect of mine improved a little (since I’m not a social type of a person). I met several people, new faces to be familiar with, new names to know, new characters to deal with, and a new process to get through.
What is a fraternity actually?.. WIKI says that, “A Fraternity (Latin frater : “brother”) is a brother hood, though the term usually connotes a distinct or formal organization. The only true distinction between a fraternity and any other form of social organization is the implication that the members freely associate as equals for a mutually beneficial purpose, rather than because of a religious, governmental, commercial, or familial bond, although there are fraternities dedicated to each of these topics.”
Thanks WIKI, well, the way I read the portion of the definition, I consider a fraternity would be a respectful institution as to be respected. However, for my honest perspective, I see fraternities nowadays to be a cracked glass waiting to be broken if not disposed properly.
What are the distinctions between these fraternities? It depends upon the priority of the group, their motivation, culture, religion, beliefs and customs.
What I mean is, do fraternal society like this should be existing right now? I’m not talking in general but in my experience with my own fraternity is its not doing well.
NAHH.. I don’t blame them, its just my youthful and malicious curiosity brought me into this. Experimenting things around in your society is a definite option for a man’s growth but failing people in your life is a definite obstruction for a man’s development.
I had many friends but I threw away some of them for this particular reason. My considered my special friends (it’s how we interconnect to each other), we usually get together for purely fun and memory. However, these days, after those petty months we can’t get along together much like we used to. At first, I think their only having consciousness since they do not much get along with me anymore. We used to play DotA together and drink together as much as true brothers do with edgy enjoyment others cannot do.
The bond between us is already been tearing apart somehow. I am always regretting those foolishness I’ve done, the true essence of friendship I lost and the people I hurt whose always holding me up that I gone down.
I learned this time around. All people commit wrong things it is always important how to keep yourself in dignity and make-up to the wrongness you have done. Hope they will forgive who should be forgiven (obviously, it’s me).
